For a long time, we kept running into the same frustrating problems in our relationship, and we didn’t really understand why. Jason tends to think in a more logical, structured way and values clear communication. Brittny, as a neurodivergent, experiences things differently—with strong emotions, moments of overwhelm, and her own way of processing things. What felt like small misunderstandings would quickly turn into tension. We both ended up feeling unheard, confused, and sometimes even alone, even though we were right next to each other. The problem wasn’t a lack of love—it was a lack of understanding.

Over time, we realized that nothing was “wrong” with either of us. We just didn’t fully understand how the other person thinks, feels, and responds. That realization changed everything. We started slowing down, learning how to communicate in ways that worked for both of us, and meeting each other where we truly are. Our journey hasn’t been perfect, but it’s been real. That’s why we created the Take Two Challenge—to help couples like us stop missing each other and start building a connection that actually works.